Of all the sins, pride is probably the most subtle and the most dangerous.
Pride is a trap to those in the ministry, and it is one we need to be constantly
on our guard to avoid. It is the sin by which Satan fell, and he is an expert
at deceiving even the godliest of men to fall into its trap.
It seems that the more we are accomplishing for God and the greater "our"
ministry becomes, the more susceptible we are to the trap of pride. What
starts out to be a work for God's glory, can quickly and easily turn into
something that is bringing glory only to one's self.
This is especially true in today's Christian culture, where so much focus
is placed on big name ministers. Nobody listens to a Christian radio program,
or television show without knowing who it is they are listening to. No pastor
who cares for his congregation opens his pulpit to someone he isn't sure
is both godly and anointed. So many opportunities rest on having a "name."
Any minister desires to preach to bigger congregations, in order to impact
more people for the Lord. To have those doors open usually means having people
recognize who you are. That in itself isn't bad; but the step from there
to allowing that recognition to puff you up in pride is a very small one.
Pride says, "Look at me, look at who I am, look at what I'm doing." While
this might be useful in the sense of gaining the attention of people so that
we can tell them about the Lord, it is clearly not the means that God wants
us to use.
We have been instructed by the Lord to lift Him up, so that He can draw all
men unto Himself (Jn 12:32); not to lift up ourselves so that
we can draw men to Him.
Pride is a sin. It is one of the sins that we inflict upon ourselves, which
can cause us to become a stench in the nostrils of our God. It is not caused
by anyone else, only by ourselves. We can't even blame Satan for putting
this temptation in our way.
And he (Jesus) said, That which cometh out of the man, that defileth (makes
impure) the man. 21 For from within, out of the heart of men,
proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, 22 Thefts,
covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an evil eye (stinginess),
blasphemy, pride, foolishness:
Mark 7:20-22 notations are mine
Take another look at that list. Jesus has placed pride in the same category
as blasphemy, adultery, murder and covetousness. That's a pretty heavy list
of sins He's listed and pride is right in there amongst them.
According to God, pride defiles us. That's an interesting word, defile. It
means to make unclean, or impure. It is the same word that is used to describe
someone who has ignored the command to observe the sabbath day (Ex
31:14). It is also used to describe the rape of Dinah, the daughter
of Jacob (Gen 34:2).
In Leviticus 11:43, God uses both the words defile and abominable to describe
a person who breaks part of the law. So, when we defile ourselves, we are
an abomination before the eyes of God.
In Leviticus 11:44, God tells us to sanctify ourselves (separate from the
system of the world) and be holy as He is holy. He goes on in the same verse
to say we are not to defile ourselves. Or, we are not to do anything that
will make us impure. Pride, as a sin, defiles us, or makes us unholy and
unsanctified.
However, God doesn't stop there, by letting us know that pride defiles us.
He wants to be sure that we understand, so He tells us He hates pride:
These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto
him: 17 A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent
blood, 18 An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that
be swift in running to mischief, 19 A false witness that speaketh
lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.
Prov 6:16
Considering all the commandments that can be broken and all the sins that
exist, it is surprising that only seven things are listed here as abominations
to the Lord. As you may have noticed, pride is the first of those seven.
In reality, each of the others in that list can be seen as a result of pride.
Every one that is proud in heart is an abomination to the LORD: though
hand join in hand, he shall not be unpunished.
Prov 16:5
The abomination called pride always leads to some sort of punishment. God
will not allow His people, especially His ministers to continue in pride.
He will always find a way to cause that person to fall and to be humbled.
In fact, the pride itself will cause the person to be brought down. Many
times, God does not need to humble a person, because through pride, the person
will place themselves in a position where they will fall. When we are full
of pride, we think we are better than others are, incapable of being wrong,
even incapable of sin. That is the first step in the trap Satan has constructed
for the proud.
A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble
in spirit.
Prov:29:23
A proud person is like a blind man; although there may be a great hole in
the road before him, he can't see it. Too often, it isn't until that person
falls into the hole that they realize there is anything wrong.
Pride also brings about contention and causes people to put others down.
I don't know how many times I have heard a believer, or even a minister,
put down another for doing something they have done themselves. I'm not talking
about baby Christians here, I'm talking about mature believers that should
know better.
Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.
Prov 13:10
Look at that verse again. It says "only by pride cometh contention." Nothing
else causes contention and strife among believers, only pride.
When we look at the Body of Christ today, we see constant bickering and lack
of unity. Each group, denomination, or church thinks they are better than
the other, having a greater understanding of the Word of God, and being better
able to fulfill God's plan. Almost everyone in the church today looks at
some other group of believers and talks about how THEY are wrong.
Yet, we can only have this attitude when we are so sure of ourselves, so
full of pride, that we know we can't be wrong. How can we be the united Body
of Christ when we are all looking down upon each other.
For as the body is one, and hath many members, and all the members of
that one body, being many, are one body: so also is Christ... 14
For the body is not one member, but many... 18 But now hath God
set the members every one of them in the body, as it hath pleased him...
22 Nay, much more those members of the body, which seem to be
more feeble, are necessary: 23 And those members of the body,
which we think to be less honourable, upon these we bestow more abundant
honour; and our uncomely parts have more abundant comeliness. 24
For our comely parts have no need: but God hath tempered the body together,
having given more abundant honour to that part which lacked: 25
That there should be no schism in the body; but that the members should have
the same care one for another.
1 Cor 12:12-25
This Body of Christ cannot exist in pride, only when we all look to each
other, realizing the value of each believer, and start to thank God for them.
Pride, more than anything else, is destroying the Church of today.
True humility, on the other hand, is a character trait that God is looking
for in us. He has called us to be humble. Not in a false way, but in the
way of accepting what He says of us, and placing ourselves in His hands.
Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same
is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
Matt 18:4
But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud,
but giveth grace unto the humble.
James 4:6
Why does the Lord say to be humble like a child? Because children don't know
how to puff themselves up in pride. They need time to learn this ability
from the adults in their lives. Children only know how to be themselves,
and are quick to accept what their parents say that they are. We too must
be quick to accept what our Father says we are.
When somebody first accepts the Lord, they are like a child. Every time there
is an altar call, they are the first ones up there, ready to receive, ready
to repent, ready for whatever.
Yet, we can look at the mature believers in the same church, and rarely see
them at the altar. No matter what the pastor preaches on, they sit there.
No matter what type of altar call, they don't move. Sometimes it seems that
you could give an altar call to receive $1,000,000.00 and they wouldn't move.
Why? Because of pride. They are afraid that going to the altar will give
others the opportunity to think there's something wrong in their lives.
A truly humble person is always ready to recognize their own error. They
are always ready to accept a true word from the Lord. They are always ready
to repent. They are always looking at their own life, seeking what they need
to change.
A truly humble person will look at a scripture verse, and use is as a mirror
to search their heart. Whatever verse is read, whatever message is preached,
they apply it to themselves. They don't think of themselves as better than
others, only as another believer seeking the will of their Father.
Satan has given us a counterfeit for true humility. It is most commonly known
as false humility. True humility is a heart attitude. False humility is an
external show. True humility points the way to Jesus. False humility draws
attention to itself by putting self down.
Take a look at these examples:
| Pride says: |
False Humility Says: |
True Humility Says: |
| Look at me |
Don't look at me |
Let me point you to Jesus |
| I can |
I can't |
God can through me |
| I did it |
I didn't do it |
Did did it through me |
| It's mine |
It 's not mine |
I'm God's steward of it |
| This is my work |
This isn't my work |
This is the work of God through me |
| I'm worthy |
I'm unworthy |
I'm valuable to God |
| I'm special |
I'm nobody |
I'm a child of God |
| I am |
I'm not |
I am what God says I am |
| I'm important |
I'm unimportant |
Jesus is important |
| My church/ministry/sheep |
I don't have anything |
God's church/ministry/sheep of which I am a steward |
| My opinion |
I don't have an opinion |
The Bible says |
| Give me/my ministry |
Don't give to me/my ministry |
Give as God directs you |
| I'm sad I didn't get it |
I'll pretend I'm not sad I didn't get it |
I'm glad they got it |
| I want |
I don't want |
I want what God wants me to have |
| I'm givted/talented |
I don't have any ability |
God has tremendous ability & has blessed me with the gift of ______ |
| My name/title is |
I don't have a title |
Jesus is, and has made me to be _____ |
| I'm in charge |
I can't be in charge |
God's in charge, I'm a servant |
| Serve me first |
Serve me last |
Serve God first, me whenever (don't give me special treatment, positive
or negative) |
| My will |
Not my will |
God's will |
| Thanks for your applause |
Don't applaud me |
Let's applaud Jesus together |
| I want the best place |
I want the worst place |
Give God the best place |
| Don't tell me what to do |
Tell me what to do, I don't have any idea |
Let's find out what God wants us to do |
| Here's my plan, Lord, please bless it |
I don't have a plan |
God's what's your plan? |
| I know |
I know nothing |
God knows, and He's taught me a few things |
| I must be right |
I must be wrong |
God's right, I want to be in agreement with Him |
Please note, saying the things that are humble without the heart attitude
of humility isn't humility, it's only another form of false humility.
One of the great blessings of being truly humble is that a humble heart is
one that God can work with. God can not only do things in the life of that
person, but through them as well. A truly humble heart is always open to
God and to His Word.
Many believers who are living in pride don't realize the blessings that they
are losing. They think they are doing fine, serving the Lord, and accomplishing
His will. However, they are blind to their own problems and to what God wants
to do in their heart. Instead of receiving God's blessings, they have God
opposed to them, and are receiving more and more struggles in their lives.
When we truly are humble, we open the way for God's promotion in our lives.
Instead of having to promote ourselves, we life Him up. The result of this
is that people are ministered to. As a reward for our humility and faithfulness,
God raises us up.
And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble
himself shall be exalted.
Mt 23:12; Lk:14:11; Lk:18:14
Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.
Jms 4:10
Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may
exalt you in due time:
1 Pt 5:6
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