Marriage Teaching - Female Arousal

MARRIAGE TEACHING
FACTS ABOUT FEMALE ARousal
by Rich Murphy

Many women say that they don’t have any sexual desire. However, what most women identify as sexual desire is actually sexual arousal. If they don't have sexual arousal, they don't have any desire. That isn't exactly the truth. Sexual desire, especially for women, is an emotional response, to the other person, whereas sexual arousal is both emotional and physical.
Women will rarely be sexuall aroused before physical contact. If you want to wait until you are aroused before making love, you will only find yourself frustrated. I would recommend taking action on that desire, and letting the arousal come during foreplay. If your husband is able to be patient in foreplay, and you don't emotionally block arousal, your body will become aroused. Then you will be able to enjoy the sexual union.
A woman's body has a need for sexual release, just as a man's does. When men are aroused, there is an obvious physical indication of it. On the other hand, the signs that a woman has of her body needing sexual release aren't as obvious. Therefore, most women misunderstand that as some other problem. Here's a few that we've found.
- Needing to urinate, but not much comes out.
- Unable to get to sleep, especially when "cuddling" with your husband.
- An "itchy crawling" feeling, like you need to get out of bed and pray.
If you make a decision to make love regularly and frequently, then you will find your body becoming more responsive, and your arousal level increasing. Don't let your "not being in the mood" get in the way. If you want to be one flesh, take action, otherwise it can't happen.